One of the best gifts you can give that special someone this Valentine’s Day is a heartfelt message. But putting big feelings into words — and deciding what to write in a Valentine’s Day card — is no easy task.
That’s why we’ve come over all Cupid and put together this list of lovey-dovey Valentine’s Day card greetings. We’ll help you craft the perfect message to show your love, appreciation, and affection this February 14.
How to Write a Valentine’s Card
Before we dive into what to write in a Valentine’s Day card, let’s discuss which ingredients make for the perfect Valentine’s Day wishes.
Start With an Introduction
Our top tip? Open your message warmly. You could say “Dearest [Name]” or “To the one who makes my heart smile”. You could also use a pet name for your recipient to make your message extra personal.
Choose a Greeting
The Valentine’s Day card greetings you write will depend on the nature of your relationship — whether it’s romantic, friendly, professional…or something of a situationship. We have ideas for every type of relationship below.
Add a Heartfelt Touch
For those you hold dear, add a meaningful touch to your Valentine’s message. Remind them of a shared memory — like your meet cute or an unforgettable date. List the things you love most about them or tell them how they make you feel — the warmer and fuzzier, the better! There’s no such thing as cheesy here.
Sign-off Lovingly
The Valentine’s Day card sign off can leave a lasting impression on the heart of your loved one. Show just how much you care by saying, “yours always,” “forever yours”, or “with all my love.”
Why Your Words Matter
In many a shoebox in many an attic, there are old Valentine’s Day cards saved as precious keepsakes. A Valentine’s Day card is more than just a piece of paper. It’s a memento of your love and affection.
Whether heartfelt, romantic, loving, or funny — the right message makes your card unforgettable and un-trashable! It’s something to show the grandkids in years to come.
Valentine’s Day Card Ideas for Every Relationship
Struggling for things to write in a Valentine's Day card? Take a look at these swoon-worthy sayings for inspiration.
Romantic Messages for Partners
Choose one of these Valentine’s Day card greetings to express your deep love and affection for your significant other.
- You’re my everything. Happy Valentine’s Day to the love of my life.
- Every moment with you feels like a dream come true.
- Life is better with you by my side.
- Home is wherever I’m with you.
Want to add a romantic gift to your romantic message? How about a classic bouquet of 12 red roses?
Valentine’s Card Message for Husband
For your darling hubbie, here are some message ideas to show your love and appreciation.
- You’re my rock. Happy Valentine’s Day, sweetheart.
- Thank you for filling my life with love and laughter.
- To my best friend, lover, and soulmate — Happy Valentine’s!
- You’re my Valentine every day, in every way.
Valentine’s Card Message for Wife
In a Valentine’s Day card for your wife, write a romantic and appreciative message like the ones below.
- Thank you for being my happily ever after. I love you endlessly.
- With every year of marriage, I love you more.
- To the most amazing, beautiful, and inspiring woman I know — Happy Valentine’s!
- I feel like I can do anything with you by my side.
Valentine’s Card Message for Girlfriend
For the one you love, write an affectionate greeting that expresses your excitement for a future together.
- Every day with you feels like an adventure. I love you!
- Our love story is my favorite. Looking forward to writing more chapters with you!
- You’re everything I’ve ever dreamed of!
- You and me. Some things are just meant to be.
Valentine’s Card Message for Boyfriend
When writing a Valentine’s message for your bf, it’s all about love, romance, and celebration of your special connection.
- You make every day brighter. Happy Valentine’s Day, babe!
- I’m so glad you’re mine!
- Happy Valentine’s to my perfect match
- Love you! Can’t wait to show you how much.
Valentine’s Card Message When it’s Complicated
Sometimes, things are just…complicated. And deciding what to write in a Valentine’s Day card is extra tough. But, keep it kind and thoughtful — without overcommitting — and you really can’t go wrong.
- Wishing you a day filled with love and happiness.
- Happy Valentine’s Day! Thinking of you today.
- We’ve had our ups and downs but you’ll always have a special place in my heart.
- So grateful that you’re part of my life. Happy Valentine’s!
A gift is a great way to show you care. Browse our “It’s Complicated” Valentine’s Collection for inspiration.
Valentine Wishes for Friends
Romantic relationships may come and go but close friends stay the course. Show how much you appreciate their friendship with these Valentine’s Day card ideas for friends.
- So glad to have you in my life. Happy Valentine’s Day, bestie!
- Happy Galentine’s Day to the girl I’d be lost without!
- The best things in life are better with a BFF like you!
- To the one who gets me like no one else — Happy Valentine’s!
Valentine’s Messages for Family
Valentine’s is the perfect time to express your love and gratitude for family members. Take a look at these message ideas.
- Thank you for always being there. Love you!
- I hope you have a Valentine's that's as wonderful as you are!
- I’m so lucky to have a [family member] like you.
- Happy Valentine’s to The Second Coolest Person in the family, love from The First.
Complement your card with a gift of flowers. Find the pick of the bunch in our Family Love and Appreciation Collection.
Happy Valentine’s Day Messages for Daughters
The love and pride you feel for your daughter is like no other. Put it into words with one of these heartfelt Valentine’s Day card messages.
- I’m so proud of the person you’ve become. Happy Valentine’s Day, sweetie!
- You’re the reason behind so many of my smiles. Thank you for being you.
- You know what I love about you? Everything! Happy Valentine’s!
- Sending bear hugs and big kisses to my lovely little Valentine!
Valentine Messages for Sons
For the apple of your eye, write a message that expresses your unconditional love and affection.
- To the son who’s sweeter than candy and brighter than the stars, we love you to the moon and back!
- Sending you all my love — today and always.
- Hope your day is filled with reminders of how much you’re loved by everyone around you.
- Couldn’t be prouder of you — and couldn’t love you more.
Professional Valentine’s Day Messages
Valentine’s Day is a chance to share your gratitude for all the people in your life, including those at work. Keep things professional with one of the message ideas below.
- Wishing you a wonderful Valentine’s Day filled with joy!
- Sending you kind wishes this Valentine’s Day.
- On this day of appreciation, I just wanted to say how much I value your hard work and support.
- Hope your day is filled with family, friends, and happy moments.
Sweet and Playful Notes for New Relationships
Butterflies? Heart racing? Daydreaming about your next date? Then these are the Valentine’s Day card messages for you. Here are some light-hearted but meaningful ideas, perfect for your new squeeze.
- I like where this is going — Happy Valentine’s Day!
- You make my heart skip a beat. Excited for what lies ahead!
- Here’s to our first Valentine’s together. Hope it’s the first of many!
- To my Valentine. Thank you for an incredible couple of months.
Say it with flowers. Send a Valentine’s Day Special Bouquet and make this February 14th one to remember.
Funny Valentine’s Day Messages
A couple that laughs together, lasts together. If you share a sense of humor with your significant other, pick a funny Valentine’s Day message for your card.
- You’re the reason I can finally delete the dating apps. Happy Valentine’s Day!
- Roses are red, violets are blue, my love for pizza is nothing compared to you.
- Happy Valentine’s Day to the one who knows all my bad habits — and loves me anyway!
- You’re the mac to my cheese and the ketchup to my fries.
Simple & Sweet Valentine’s Day Messages
Short but sugary sweet, these Valentine’s Day wishes pack a lot of love and romance into a few short words.
- You make my heart happy. Happy Valentine’s Day!
- Will you be my Valentine?
- Life is so much better with you in it.
- To the one who brings sunshine to every day!
Writing Tips for a Memorable Valentine’s Day Card
To really sweep them off their feet this Valentine’s Day, bear these writing tips in mind when penning a message for your card.
- Be authentic: Write from the heart and keep it personal.
- Make it specific: Mention a shared memory or inside joke.
- Use prompts: Start with a simple “I love you because…” or “I’m grateful for you because…”
- Add a poetic touch: If you’re feeling creative, try a short poem. “Roses are red…” is a classic.
DIY Valentine’s Day Card Ideas
Nothing says I love you like a handmade card. Here are a few easy ideas for a DIY Valentine’s Day card that they’re sure to cherish.
Use Pressed Flowers
Press a flower or petal that you picked on a special day or event. It could be a bloom from your anniversary or a trip you took. Then, add it to your card.
Add a Personal Photo or Memento
Ticket stubs from the first movie you saw together, lyrics from the song you love, a sweet photo of the two of you… show your sentimental side by adding a memento to your Valentine’s Day card.
Incorporate Hand-Drawn Illustrations
Stick a doodle in your Valentine’s Day card. Draw hearts, flowers, two jigsaw pieces fitting together — or even two stick figures holding hands. You don’t have to be a great artist to show just how much you care.
What to Send With a Valentine’s Day Card
To make this Valentine’s Day extra special, send a gift along with your card. Flowers are always a popular and romantic choice. Or why not send a box of luxurious chocolates or a gift basket of foodie treats?
And why stop at a gift for your loved ones? Indulge in a little self-care this Valentine’s with a special gift just for you — because the more you fill your cup, the more love you have to share with others.
